- They have a false belief to work on and change.
- They have a value they believe in that needs to be worked on changed with a counsellor. ie All good women stay with their man.
- They need education about abuse so that they understand about the cycle and how it operates so they can see that staying is not helping anyone.
- They have no where safe to go.
- There is a threat to your life or another persons life if you leave.
- They are programmed by abuse and fear and need to be re programmed.
- They are getting something out of staying in the abuse. Some way they are benefiting could be financial or emotionally. But somehow there is a benefit they are getting that they value.
- They are in chronic fear need counselling and support and maybe some safety things put in place so it is safe for them to leave.