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Are You In Fear Or Love?

Every action you take in life you are responding from fear or love! If you think about this and when you are about to make a decision think am I operating from fear or love? Is this action going to help me and others or not? Fear is a very low vibration so if this…

Domestic Violence and the Aborigine Community

The other day I heard a media person talk about this and say that in the Aborigine Community domestic violence is five times worse than in the white community. I think this is pretty sad situation. Wow it’s shocking in the white community and out of control and that is not good! If we are…

What Happens In The Honeymoon or Reconciliation Cycle

I remember this cycle so well when I was living in domestic violence. I would have a restraining order on my abuser and he would repeatedly come back to me and beg me to lift it and take it off him. That he was so sorry for what he has done to me that never…

Changes To The System

Thank you to all the victims who have come forward to speak to tell your stories or to be at marches. I say well done and continue we will get our message out there to make changes to the system for the good of all. As victims of Domestic violence and sexual assault we have…

Educate Children About Safe Touch Behaviour

We have all heard about the horrific acts of sexual abuse of children but what can we do to stop this from happening? I believe that education is key there are simple things that we can do to help educate our children about this. One thing is to let them know that they own their…

Reasons Why A Victim Of Abuse Will Not Leave Abuse?

There are reasons why a victim will not leave abuse which are many and include having a false belief that they need to work on and change.  This can get in the way of leaving as you can have a belief like “You have to support your man no matter what” or something similar. Which…

Threats To Harm You Family Or Pets

Many abusers have threatened victims with lots of different threats. I have heard them all and they are part of the need to control and manipulate you into doing what they want you to do. if you get educated in domestic violence you will see about this in the power and control wheel that is…

Safety Always Comes First

Until a victim of domestic violence has complete safety and feels that the police and those protecting her or him is believed and feels safe. No other steps can happen safety always comes first and needs to be there for any other step to be taken. A victim will not leave a violent situation without…