Separation Abuse

This is any kind of abuse that happens when you have left your abuser but they continue to abuse you and find ways to have physical, emotional, mental contact with you even though you don’t want this. It could be from a person, from a relationship, personal relationships, a job or group you where involved in. The person or people will still find ways to target you with abusive behaviour so they can control and manipulate you. They will refuse to let go to do any inner work on themselves, to heal and move on with their own life. Sometimes they will feel that they have to have contact with you and your energy. Finding any reason at all to still contact you and get you to engage with them. This is when you have moved away, changed accounts, moved countries, left town, had a divorce, done a settlement, separated from them to cut all ties to them, got court orders in place, done spiritual work to cut all energetic cords with them but they still refuse to let go of you. Even though you have done everything possibly to disconnect from them. Continually said no to them and put boundaries in place to protect you and to block them from having any access to you. Often they will use children or other people to find ways to have contact with you to keep a fight going with you. They need to live their own life and understand that no one is benefiting from this situation and they have inner work that they need to do but often refuse to do this. For some reason they are physically, mentally, emotionally unable to disconnect from you in any way. This is abusive to you and you need to get yourself some support, get evidence and keep working to keep yourself safe from them and their abusive behaviours. They often want to control and overpower you in your life. In abusive situations you need to look at who is the person who is holding all the power in the relationship over you? This is the answer as to who the real abuser is. Stand in your own power, own your truth, speak your truth and get support, put boundaries around you to keep you feeling safe in your life! If a person is unable to disconnect with you there is something seriously wrong with them not you so keep find ways to disconnect see police or get legal advice.