This information is from my domestic violence course, adult survivors of emotional abusive parents’ book, My personal experience.

This is when lies and false information is said about you to others, so they believe the lies that are told to them. This is to stop other people from supporting you in any way in any way, the abuser wants you alone and isolated. If you have a business, they could try to destroy this for you and could even steal it from you stating it as their own idea and business. They will give a bad rap about you to others to discredit you in every single way that they can. Harming your good name and the success you have created for yourself. The information being said to you is usually false and all lies, with no truth at all being said about you. Their goal is to destroy you in every way that they can. They want to harm your good name and your hard work, so they feel important and more special than you do. It is important to stay in your own lane and work on yourself. So, you continue to grow don’t worry about what someone else is doing. It is really none of your business what someone else has or does. Work on yourself do not worry about another person’s life. Lies are said to anyone who will listen to these. If you engage in this behavior, you are small minded. They can even give false reports to the authorities, so criminal charges are made about you, so you are shamed and defamed of your work. What they want is to cause problems, blocks and needing to stop another person from doing well in their own life, it is insane behavior. Discrediting you to your community so you fail at what you do and cannot succeed in your work in any way. They will use flying monkeys to destroy and attack you. This is like a group, mob mentality of beings attacking one innocent person. They want you to fail and cause permanent damage to you. These actions are all done out of malice, envy and jealously of who you really are. They are an enemy and do not have your best interest at heart, working often behind your back to target you in every way they can. They will often smile in your face and pretend to be your friend, but they are not, but an enemy to you. They want you to lose everything that you have worked so hard for. As they are purposely damaging another person’s life because of their lack of love of self that they don’t feel inside them. The only way this person can do better is to steal and destroy someone else’s life and work. They are unable to work on their own issues or to self-reflect on themselves in any way so they can create what they need on their own. What they are doing is a hate campaign on another person’s life. They are using hate, and evil intent that is often projected at you in some way from them.

This is really their own emotions and feelings that they are sending out, it is a mirror of what they feel about themselves and their own life. Smear campaigns are led by abusive, controlling and angry beings with lots of issues. Talking bad about another person is never good for anyone. You are sending bad intentions out into the consciousness and the planet, this intent will come back to you, not actually the person being targeted by you, so you are harming yourself. The truth always comes out in the end so everyone will see who or what the real problem is. You will be left to survive in all the lies and mistruths said about you. As all around you have been poisoned about you. So, you are left alone to fight your battle on your own with very little support if any. Even when the bullying is taking its toll on your life and you are suffering mentally, they don’t care, could even be laughing at you and the distress that you feel. There could be no one there to support, uplift you or to help you in any way. Those around you could be frightened of standing up and supporting you as they could then be targeted too. Others can feel threatened when you develop high standards in your own life. When you have firm boundaries around you to stop any kind of abuse against you. It is important to have self-love and confidence for yourself, even if no one else does. True power comes from inside you not outside of you. There are videos on my channel for self-love and working on wounds that you hold.

What you are going through is really a war against you. As you could be attacked mentally, physically, emotionally, spiritually, financially all at once. So, you need to have a plan to keep yourself safe and protected. You could have your life smeared with lies but stay strong as when the truth comes out you will be on the right side of truth. I have found that fighting and acting out does not work it only creates more drama. Stay quiet and let the noise of the group dissipate keep speaking your truth in any way that you can in a productive way that is not attacking anyone. All untruths, bitter words, mistruths, lies, character assassinations will be seen for what they are not true at all. You could look alike a crazy person and unhinged in some way, in the middle of the chaos that is going on around you. But step out of the chaos and stand alone in your truth. I would rather be alone and safe than in the abuse, living in a lie. You could feel driven to the edge and want to take your own life but don’t do this. Others may take pleasure in pushing your buttons, so you react but don’t do this stay firm in your own power. You could also be emotionally blackmailed, and gaslight by others and put in a corner feeling trapped in some way. Stand your ground as this is unreasonable for you to be attacked in this way. These beings may use your insecurities against you, so you feel lacking and less than but send self-love to yourself. They want you to lose your own inner power that you hold. Wanting to silence you to rewrite your story in some way that makes them the hero not you. Your own words could be used against you which will cause you great harm. They want you to look stupid or dumb in some way. Just watch the truth will always come out and all those in the smear campaign will look really stupid for what they did and said to anyone. The mob of abusers will be shown to be so abusive for their actions they took.

A smear campaign is destabilizing for you to live though. It can be a lonely place to be, but it is important to work on yourself, your issues and your wounds. Keep going forward in your life in which every way that you can, so you are still making progress in some way. It is better to be alone than with being who are false and not on your side. You will feel conflicted often not even understanding what is going on or why it even happens to you. Often you will feel punished, in fear from the abuse. Stay your authentic self-there is no need to question the abuse that is going on around you. Don’t doubt yourself just keep busy and productive so you continue to make small steps towards your goals and never ever give up. Use what reserves you have available to you to keep going. It has been my experience to stay quiet through this situation by not attacking anyone but stay in your own lane working on yourself and your goals. What will happen is that all those that really know you, will support you. They are your team stay with them. “They will stand by you and help you”. All the rest will listen to the lies then drop off your community. Keep being true to you and away from any abuse. The more you work on your own wounds the more all the drama, trauma, chaos will stop and your gifts will come to the light for you to then use here in your own life. The more you fight the drama the more it will play out for you, and get messy so stay out of it, so don’t do that there is no point. Keep advancing in any way that you can. Let all who want to carry on carry on and don’t engage in anyway. Anyone who listened to the lies, is not your friend, so be grateful that you see them for who they really are no need to say anything as karma will play out for them. Understand the truth and move forward with those on your side who stand in truth and love energy. You can work on self-esteem to help you and keep your boundaries up around you if you need to. Doing a cleansing of your aura and body can help too. All healers will have this service for you to use or look online. If you have evidence present this to the authorities to take action. Get support from groups or agencies around you so you are not alone and are supported.

Anyone who is involved in this needs to do lots of inner work on themselves. As you should never just believe what is said about another person without finding out if it is true or not. Don’t just believe someone’s words about another person. Do you own research and ask some questions here would be a good move to make. Those attacking you are of a lower vibration so stay in your power and go to a higher timeline so the abusers cannot reach you. They are bullies that is what they are no doubt about it. They are not aware beings and need to look at the conscious scale for where they are with the acts they use against others. Very much needing to do personal work so they raise their consciousness and frequency. Then they can be better beings in their own life and will not harm others.