What Are Covert Narcissist?

This is a type of narcissist who hides their behaviour so it is not seen at first by you. This is done to trick you into believing this person is a good person but they are not and are really a narcissist. You will feel like every thing you do is wrong and at fault in your own life by this person. They will nick-pick you making you feel wrong and not good enough in yourself. This is all done to try to unsettle and unnerve you so you give up your goals and dreams and what matters to you. You will feel very unsafe and uptight being around them as they will under-mind you and your abilities. One of their goals is for your self esteem to take a huge hit so you feel not good enough to take action in your life. They have been known to smile in your face and talk bad about you behind your back with a smear campaign that is used against you. They want you to feel down on yourself and to lower your vibration so you feel fear and doubt of your personal abilities that you have. They will continue to sabotage all efforts that you make to more forward with your goals. Wanting you to feel inadequate with no value to do anything in your own life. These beings operate in the dark and their energy is really dark and evil. Working behind the scenes to stop all efforts you make to go forward in your life. Often you will feel confused, unsafe and unsure as to what is really going on around you. These beings need to always be on top better than you and always on show to the world so they feel they are the best at everything. They love to compete with others which is really a very lower emotion and is one step above control on the emotional scale. They like to be on a pedestal so they can look down on everyone around them, controlling and manipulating others. You will often find these beings at the top of organisations where they are in total control of others lives. They are a power figure but really the power they hold is control and not based in love energy at all. They love to receive from others but are not able to give anyone, anything in return for what they take. One of their traits is not able to feel empathy for others in any way. They usually have a lot of wounds to work on but they are unable to do any inner work and look inward at themselves. No matter how much you give to them it is never enough and they will always want you to give them more as they feel like an empty shell inside without any love energy or soul. They love to attach to others to suck energy out of them so they can use this energy for themselves. Nothing that they do makes them feel full and OK as they are damaged by trauma and abuse and can be demonic in their nature. Some say they have evil spirits inside of them that eat them alive and attach to their soul. They can have violent rages when you refuse to do as they want as they need to get their own way. There is only one way to do things and that is their way no one else matters in their life but themselves. Everything is all about them and their own life. They hold a false sense of self and will often take on others personality and goals to try to fill the empty void that is inside them. They can’t understand or feel how another person feels when they are hurt by them. They love to have the spot light shone on them and them only. Really they are insecure and have no self esteem with lots of ego running the show for them. You will always owe them and be needing to pay them for everything they have done to you in the past. They will steal, take and use you and then tell you it is all your fault that you still owe them. They are never wrong about anything fighting with them will create rage to be shown to you from them. so it is best to just walk away and keep your distance from them to cut all cords of contact and control that they hold over you. Their love for you to be dependant on them so they feel special, loved and noticed by others. Being around them you will feel small and valueless not of great worth. Nothing you do will be good enough for them and you will have to redo everything over and over again till they are satisfied by this. Demanding that you respect and look up to them as the expert on everything. As they operate out of shame and blame energy. Take note of how you feel when you are around them as this is great information to use for your good. Do you feel drained and empty or uplifted and happy when around them? Always being selfish with your needs and wants which doesn’t matter to them at all. No one is able to get close enough to help them with their own issues and they refuse help in anyway as they feel they are perfect in every way. It is not easy to fix or to change their behaviour and issues. You need to set good boundaries around you so you do not allow them to abuse you and you feel safe again. They love to gaslight you and this is one of their tools they use. They are often depressed and sad beings inside them feeling alone and against the world. Very arrogant and rude with others around them. Often they will take on the victim role so others feel sorry for them to feel pity for them. These beings hold very low energy and will send this low energy out into the world to others so they feel bad too. You will find them being passive aggressive with you and others swiping at you for something that you never actually did. They believe that all beings on earth owe them for everything and that they should give nothing back for this. Showing others all your faults and problems to the world makes them feel good about themselves. They feel entitled to receive from everyone around them what they want never feeling happy or thankful for what they have and do receive from others. Loving to criticise others, pulling them down and make them feel bad about themselves. This is because they feel bitter and angry inside and show this to everyone around them. Not thinking twice about stabbing you in the back for something they though you did as they are wanting to take revenge on you. They are drunk with their own power that they think they hold. It is all about how they appear to others and a show and tell to the world about them. They want to hold you down stop you getting up again. Instead of doing their own thing and working on their own business then minding their business they look at what you are doing and try to control you and your life. Everything will be a battle with you even though you don’t want to play this game with them at all. They need to lie, cheat and steal from you instead of creating their own work that they could be proud of. This is a power struggle with you that they are playing and they have a need to win at all cost. Being unhinged and unstable in their own behaviour. Wanting to replace you with others who are on their team of haters. Creating situations to cause upset and cause tension for you wanting to trap you in someway. They think in black and white thinking only very fixed. If they are not winning they will feel enraged with you and will attack you in any way that they can by throwing things back at you. Their goal is for you to be put out in the cold and rejected by others around you. When they don’t win they will have a tantrum to get what they need they are unable to stop their bad behaviour. Telling you who belongs and who does not and you do not belong on their team. It is all about money, greed and power of control in their own world.