What is Stonewalling?

This is when you give someone the silent treatment and not acknowledging them in anyway. It can be making them feel valueless not really a person and alive. You will feel of no importance, not seen or acknowledged in any way. It can be described as a silent rage that is raged against you even though no words are actually said to you. Hurting you with silence to leave you out of the group and feel forgotten about. Some times it can be done as a make wrong of you and your life or personal decisions that you have made in your life. It is like putting a wall around you and shutting you out from the world so you feel alone and isolated from everyone. Not a part of the group, the team or even the world so you feel completely alone with no support. Their goal is for you not to be noticed or seen by anyone in the world so you give up your goals. This is really childish behaviour that is used against you instead of talking to you about the problem or working on their own issues they used silence to shut you out or shut you down. It is as if you are dead and do not exist in the world. Trying to make you feel forgotten about and not of value to yourself and others. They do not want your work, your value, your ideas to be seen in anyway by anyone or acknowledged. They could even steal your ideas and your work so they get the glory of this work. Wanting to give you no answer or final statement of what is going on so you feel hung up on, not able to complete what you need to do or to get an answer in any way, so there is no real completion happening for you. Often you will feel shut out from the world, the group, the town that you do not belong in any way. This behaviour is all about stopping, blocking, preventing you from showing your work to the world and having a voice in any way or even being yourself and different. What this really is that is happening is controlling, manipulating behaviour that is being used against you. These kind of people will make a big fuss about everyone else and will purposely leave you out doing it in front of everyone so they all know that you are being devalued by them and not mentioned for your hard work. All the people around you are quiet not speaking out about what is going on so as to approve of the abuse that is happening to you so you feel the whole group condone this kind of behaviour. This is a type of bullying that is really going on with others that are jealous but they project every thing they feel on to you. Thinking that they are the only person who can be validated and made to feel special. The goal is to get you to react to this behaviour and get angry in someway, but don’t see this as a type of abuse that is used against you. The people involved in this behaviour are belittling and small minded, jealous, envious people, with no good communication skills to use. They want you to feel that you are the problem and have done something wrong to them when actually you have not done anything wrong and have been minding your own business doing your own thing and staying in your own lane. It is like a type of punishment of you so you feel bad and don’t want to shine bright in the world. You need to stand strong and not react to this type of abuse that is happening for you. Get yourself some support and keep going forward don’t let others project there small mindness behaviour on to you.