Commonality From The Book Trauma And Recovery Here are some sections from this chapter that I think are very important. Traumatic events destroy the sustaining bonds between individual and community.…

Blackballing A Person What is this? This is when someone is rejected, banned, to vote against you, to tolerate a situation or event, to dismiss, refuse, vote down, shoot down,…

Total Surrender From The Book Trauma and Recovery Much of this section of the book relates to how i felt during my captive state with my abuser and it felt…

What is Stonewalling? This is when you give someone the silent treatment and not acknowledging them in anyway. It can be making them feel valueless not really a person and…

What happens when you are the scapegoat and abused? You will be blamed for all that happens in your family, group or community. It will all be your fault you…

Separation Abuse This is any kind of abuse that happens when you have left your abuser but they continue to abuse you and find ways to have physical, emotional, mental…

What is Cognitive Dissonance? This is when you hold a belief that is usually longstanding and very strong for you and it is questioned. When this belief is questioned like…

What Is Reactive Abuse? This is abuse when you are targeted by others continually to the point where you then react in an upset way at the person or group…

What Is Grey- Rocking? This is when someone goes silent and does not reply to you. It is giving a person no answer for their abusive or rude remark or…

So what does this really mean? Bread-crumbing is a term that is used in abusive relationships where someone is in control of what another person is getting. It is a…