Spend Quality Time With Your Children

What your children remember and learn from is what you show and teach them. If you spend quality time with them every week. They will know that they are important and have high value as a person. Also that you care about them and their well-being. That they matter to you and how they are doing in their life. You need to have a good connection to them so that they can come to you if they need help in the future.

If other things in your life are more important they will know this ie drinking, phone, TV, being with your friends, going to the pub. Yes you need time to do these things too but what is your priority in your life. Is it your children or your phone? So think about this and the message you are sending to your children. They will know if you have them as being lest important. You need to teach them that it is safe for them to come to you at any time for anything. That they can talk to you safety without feeling afraid or frightened. Doing this builds good strong relationships with your children. It makes them feel that they are loved and important. That what they have to say and are feeling matters to you and the family. Spending time doing the things they love and enjoy and being apart of their world is so important for children. It makes them feel secure and loved. Having good well-being is very important and matters. When they have this they will grow up being secure and safe and making much better decisions. So their life will be so much better and healthier. It really matters what you teach your children because it effects the rest of their life. When your children have this they will have a secure base to operate from with high self esteem and good well- being. They will be able to make healthy choices in their life for themselves. They will be able to use their core personal values to make healthy decisions for their life. Because every decision that you make is based on your core personal values. So this really does matter. Note when you are spending quality time with your children have the phone off or on silent, the TV off and nothing to distract you from really being there with them and connecting.

Moral: Make it a priority of being with your children and connecting with them!