I choose to work on what makes things better and not to talk about how bad things are all the time. Because when you work on the good and the postive more good things happen for you. No body likes to be with someone who is down and negative about everything that is very depressing. So as much as I can I try to look at what will make things better and lift people up make them feel better. Thank them for the good and use good to do more good because that makes every one feel better and do better. If you look at the bad you will only get more bad. So look at the good in the situation can you turn the situation around by working on the good that is there. Other people like to be around people who are postive. happy and making a difference in the world. So find some good things to work on that way there will be less bad. I write poety and stories with that in mind what will help another person to do better or use what you know to help them. Because when you do this everybody wins and does better. They are postive and happy and using being grateful so that the situation gets better not worse. Rewarding others for what they do thanking them and the hard work they do to help you because these people will want to help you more. They will be on your side and you need to get as many people on your side as you can so that everybody wins. Instead of looking at how bad domestic violence is I choose to look at what a healthy relationship is and promote that. I  talk about kindness and being brave and love. smiles and hugs, great mothers because these are not domestic violence they are the opporsite of it and that is what you want more of so talk about that and see what happens for you. You get what you work on so work on the positive and see things change for good. Instead of making pople feel bad and making them wrong or defesive I try to find something that will help them to do better something they can use and work on their problems. We all have our moments and that is ok its real its life and its truth but then go back to being postive as soon as you can. There is a saying if you can’t find something good to say don’t say anything well its true. If the person chooses to be negeative then limit your time with them or put up some healthy boundaries for when you are with them. If you are really upset with them write a letter and let them know how you feel and what you need and then forgive them and move on. If the person chooses to still be negative that is up to them and none of your business they will have there own Karma to work through. There behaviour is there business not yours you can get on with your life and be happy. Being with happy postive people who want the world to be better and take action to make it happen.These are the people you need to be around cos they make life fun.

Moral: Use positve actions and words to do more good in the world!