Thank you to all the victims who have come forward to speak to tell your stories or to be at marches. I say well done and continue we will get…
Educate Children About Safe Touch Behaviour
We have all heard about the horrific acts of sexual abuse of children but what can we do to stop this from happening? I believe that education is key there…
Reasons Why A Victim Of Abuse Will Not Leave Abuse?
There are reasons why a victim will not leave abuse which are many and include having a false belief that they need to work on and change. This can get…
Threats To Harm You Family Or Pets
Many abusers have threatened victims with lots of different threats. I have heard them all and they are part of the need to control and manipulate you into doing what…
Safety Always Comes First
Until a victim of domestic violence has complete safety and feels that the police and those protecting her or him is believed and feels safe. No other steps can happen…
Believe Children When They Tell You They Have Been Abused
My son was sexually abuse by his stepsister and the father and both times I believed and supported him with counselling and love. It is easy to try to make…
What Happens In The Honeymoon or Reconciliation Cycle
I remember this cycle so well when I was living in domestic violence. I would have a restraining order on my abuser and he would repeatedly come back to me…
What Happens When You Are Kept In Captivity?
When you are kept in captivity it means that your abuser is able to continually abuse you over and over again with no way out hour after hour and day…
How To Help Someone Who Is Very Stressed Out And Distressed
What to do when a person is very stressed out and distressed. I know that for me the thing that works is to use the softly approach. I believe that…
Model What You Want Your Children To Be As Adults
What your children remember and learn from is what you show and teach them you are a model as to how an adult behaves. So make sure that you are…